Thank you!
Sex—Thank you God for making procreation such a pleasurable experience! Unfortunately, your practical, pleasurable gift is frequently abused and has become the nucleus of mental processing, thus replacing the brain—at least for one gender anyway. Men from all walks of life destroy their opportunities and injure countless innocents because they think with their penises, or is that spelled penae? I am sure that was not your intention, but evolution seems to have shrunk the brain and enlarged the prostrate and its surrounding appendages. Of course, as woman I enjoy engaging in sex, but I have definite pre-requisites—my male partner must also be my marriage partner. I am a romantic. I want the foreplay to be candlelight, love phrases, and soft stroking. Sex should be more about making love, than about ******* someone! I don’t want to imply that I don’t enjoy a good orgasm because I do! However, when the foreplay scenario is not met, there's an awful lot of faking going on!
I expect to be called a prude, but I don’t agree with having sex for sex’s sake unless procreation is the intent! I do realize, of course, that we are animals and that we have spontaneous physical reactions that trigger increased blood flow to parts of the anatomy upon biological and/or emotional stimulation. But, we are also civilized animals with the capacity to reason. That makes us unique in the animal kingdom and should help us to make responsible decisions about our pursuit of carnal needs. Responsible sex is a private matter between two consenting adults who have a reason for having sex other than raw animal instincts and insatiable desires. Furthermore, I definitely know that the act of sex was intended to procreate, so I should never be surprised that if, after engaging in sex, I discovered that I had procreated, nor should I ever consider that I had the right to end the life that I created! This provides even a stronger argument for sex being engaged in by consenting adults! For me, sex is not synonymous with any four letter word—unless the four letter word is love or kids!
DISCLAIMER: I did not read the opinions expressed in the article. I was too afraid that I may be exposed to opinions or information that I may be unable to erase from my mental "browser history".
So why would I bother to comment on something I didn't read?
First I question the author's experience on the matter, since she has only engaged in the aforementioned activity twice. My brother and I are the only proof of such activity and I refuse to accept any evidence to the contrary.
I am also commenting because I am currently in the midst of a crisis that many of us have faced at one point or another. My circumstances may be somewhat unique, but the basic question remains the same. What should "adult" children do when their parents talk about sex? (Or take the time to write about it for everyone to see?)
Given the speed at which I abandoned the article, apparently I am a firm believer in the bury your head, cover your ears and run away school of thought. Some may see it as unhealthy to avoid discussing an issue that is so vital to the human experience. Some may see it as immature to ignore something just because it makes you feel uncomfortable. I am here to tell you that it is ok to run and hide.
I had "the talk" with my parents a long time ago. My parents also instilled in me the character and the morality that let me draw my own conclusions about the relationship aspects of sexual activity. Having an older brother and cable also helped considerably with the "nuts and bolts" of the matter.
I am now a relatively well adjusted adult with a beautiful family. I would consider myself as exhibit A in the case of Children vs. TMI (Too much information). I am in no way endorsing the puritanical sexual repression that many seem to view as an answer to society’s general decline. I think that by repressing or ignoring the topic you only make it more mysterious and intriguing to kids while at the same time denying them the ability to deal with the physical and emotional toll that sexual activity can have. I’m only saying I don’t want to hear it from my mom.
I love you mom. Thanks for having sex (at least twice).
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